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I have always heard that the mind has great power over us and our actions. And the way we assimilate the things that happen to us can lead us one way or another. I have also heard that luck does not exist, but that the one who seeks it, finds it. I think it has relate with what I mentioned about the mind.
One of the most pessimistic people I know is my mother. No matter what you talk about, she always looks for the negative side of everything. This has led her to make little change in her life. Any change, no matter how small, seems too risky to her since she only sees what can happen if everything goes wrong.
However, except for my mother, at home we are all very optimistic and we always see the positive side of everything. I remember how in school or university I always left the exams with the feeling of getting a 10 and then I didn’t even get to 4. But that optimistic mentality has led us to be able to launch our own projects, work in our companies, or make changes no matter how crazy they seemed.
Once, I bought a car in Germany (in case you don’t know I live in Spain) without seeing it before, I could only see 3 photos (and not of good quality) and having a conversation in English with the seller. I sent him money in advance to reserve it and prepare the paperwork. I bought a flight, I went to Germany and I came back driving the 2,000 kilometers that I had back. And you know what? I had the car for 9 years! It did not give me a single problem and for me it was a dream come true. For my mother it was crazy and everything would go wrong. I always thought that everything would be fine, and it did.
It is just one example of the difference between how different life can be from a pessimistic person to an optimistic one. If it had been like my mother, I would not have had the car I wanted at the age of 22, however thanks to my way of seeing things I was able to fulfill that dream.
And like this example I have many more. Some might say that I was lucky with the car, but as I said, that luck must be sought. Pessimism leads us to not make decisions, to make everything look bad to us, not to move forward in our lives and even make bad decisions. All this can be conditioning your life, leading you to keep a job that you do not like, a toxic relationship that does not make you happy or other situations that generate stress in your life. Avoid pessimism, be optimistic.
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Siempre he escuchado que la mente tiene un gran poder sobre nosotros y nuestros actos. Y la forma en que asimilemos las cosas que nos ocurren pueden llevarnos por un camino o por otro. También he escuchado que la suerte no existe, sino que el que la busca la encuentra y pienso que tiene mucha relación con lo que mencionaba sobre la mente.
Una de las personas más pesimistas que conozco es mi madre. Da igual de lo que hables que siempre le busca el lado negativo a todo. Esto la ha llevado a realizar pocos cambios en su vida. Cualquier cambio, por pequeño que sea, le parece demasiado arriesgado ya que solo ve lo que puede ocurrir si todo va mal.
Sin embargo, menos mi madre, en casa somos todos muy optimistas y siempre le vemos el lado positivo a todo. Recuerdo como en el colegio o la universidad salía siempre de los exámenes con la sensación de sacar un 10 y luego no llegaba ni al 4. Pero esa mentalidad optimista nos ha llevado a ser capaces de lanzar nuestros propios proyectos, trabajar en nuestra empresas, o realizar cambios por locos que pareciesen.
Una vez, me compré un coche en Alemania (por si no lo sabes vivo en España) sin verlo antes, sólo pude ver 3 fotos ( y no de buena calidad) y manteniendo una conversación en ingles con el vendedor. Le envié dinero por adelantado para reservarlo y preparar el papeleo. Compré un vuelo, me fui a alemania y me volví conduciendo los 2.000 kilometros que había de vuelta. Y ¿sabes que? ¡tuve el coche 9 años! No me dio ni un solo problema y para mi fue un sueño cumplido. Para mi madre era una locura y todo saldría mal. Yo siempre pensé que todo iría bien, y así fue.
Solo es un ejemplo de la diferencia entre lo diferente que puede ser la vida de una persona pesimista a una optimista. Si hubiese sido como mi madre no hubiera tenido el coche que deseaba con 22 años, sin embargo gracias a mi forma de ver las cosas pude cumplir ese sueño.
Y como este ejemplo tengo muchos más. Algunos podrían decir que tuve suerte con el coche, pero como decía, esa suerte hay que buscarla. El pesimismo nos lleva a no tomar decisiones, a que todo nos parezca mal, a no avanzar en nuestras vidas e incluso tomar malas decisiones. Todo eso puede ir condicionando tu vida, llevándote a mantener un trabajo que no te gusta, una relación tóxica que no te hace feliz u otras situaciones que generan estrés en tu vida. Evita el pesimismo, se optimista.
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